Should you call your Man King and your Woman Queen ?

Story time! so once in my relationship we didn't really use "my king , my queen" right, but we ended up going through a rough patch and came out the other side together though bruised but still together. Anyway for my birthday he ended up putting some pics on Facebook aka Fastbook and someone commented that she is not your Queen your Queen is your Mother! I saw it of course and was like bitch whatttt??? not on the post but in my mind only because I wasn't about to lower my standards to meet her's, sometimes the best way to let someone know they stupid is not to respond.

But the situation did get me thinking are we seriously still living in a social media world where people think they have the right to tell you how to define your loved ones. First off your King can be your father your grandpops or that stepdad who held you down as a child though he didn't have too and it can still be used to represent the man your with or any man . Far less for Queen we all got some Queen Mothers and Grandma's and yet still the title Queen can celebrate Mothers, Girlfriends, wives and all women that the person using it conceives to be of that essence.

Look up the meaning of Queen there are so many descriptions of the word here is just one that I found " A queen is someone who is empathetic and puts themselves in others shoes to be able to relate and help others through their struggles. A queen is someone who doesn't conform to what others thinks of her but takes advisement from others because she knows that she does not know all" My personal definition is a woman who is always there for you tells you the truth no matter how hard it might be to take, is a go getter, she does not conform to what society thinks of her, she is beautiful not just in body but in soul and heart, she is powerful and stands with her king not just next to him to be taken care of but as an active partner.

Now the last issue I found was that this was a woman like myself bringing down another woman. We still doing this shit in 2020 far less for when this occurred not too long ago. Ladies I know this is hard because social media has this unspoken rule where you get to leave comments that you wouldn't make in person "cause yuh Ass gonna look stupid" but please try minding your own business. Can someone tell me why this woman that I don't know from Adam far less from Moses found it appropriate or even found the time to message my man with that comment. Ladies we really slipping with the classiness.

Now whether or not your for or against who should be called Queen or king , I want to leave you with this 1. it ain't your business how someone defines their relationship " 'just 'smile and wave" 2. ladies clean up your act on the pettiness there's too many women issues around the world to fight like equal pay, sexual harassment in the work place , promotion of women to authorial positions , women rights to be educated and many other glass ceilings to be broken. Lets celebrate each other , stand with each other and lift each other up not tear us down because really when you tear another woman down your tearing yourself down. And that's tacky get yourself together boo! 3. you don't have to wait on your other half or anyone to declare your greatness, live in your truth and walk in your light cause I know that I am a Queen and I wear my crown .

Stay in your lane and there'll be no accidents

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